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2019-08-27

MELISSA PROULX

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A mentor, a guide

Committed mentors

For several mentors from Réseau M and Fondation Montréal Inc. , getting involved in a process of assistance and support is an extraordinary opportunity to give back to the business community. We gathered the testimony of three of them for whom giving time is a question of balance.


Anne-Solène Rioult, building a network


Originally from France, Anne-Solène Rioult has over 20 years of business experience in France and Quebec. Her call to volunteering was felt after losing her job. “It was natural for me to get involved in the business world to stay active and exercise my brainpower,” explains the woman who created her own business development consulting company Les FACILitatrices and co-initiated the Université du leadership féminine. As an entrepreneur, I would have liked to have this kind of support, but I had difficulty asking for help and the resources were not what we have today.”

An active volunteer for 10 years, she who mainly supports women's causes (in tech, entrepreneurship) and their financial empowerment around the world, maximizes her impact by annually rotating the organizations to which she gives her time. Except for the coaching and mentoring mandates with young entrepreneurs for Réseau M and the Fondation Montréal Inc. "What's attractive and addictive about this type of commitment is seeing the evolution of the people you've supported. It's very stimulating to stick with young start-up entrepreneurs who have bright eyes and are ablaze with passion."




Recently, mentoring has become a new string to her bow. “It’s a good complement to coaching that allows me to further deepen my knowledge of being, rather than my knowledge of doing. I actually had to silence the coach in me to let the mentor emerge.”

If Anne-Solène Rioult had known how important business volunteering was for networking, she would have done it long before, she concedes.

“As an immigrant, I recommend it to everyone to feel useful, to accomplish great things and to increase your network capital. I met extraordinary people that I can call at any time for information or help. I have common values with them and I know that they will always be there for me. Being a volunteer allows you to create a community and that is for me the most rewarding aspect.”



Paul Lapensée, transmitting his values


For Paul Lapensée, president of Alta Vista Consultants Inc., volunteer involvement began before he even entered the workforce. During his university years, he was involved in two organizations, one for women in difficulty and the other for young boys lacking direction. “I think I’ve always had a very keen social conscience,” observes the man who has 40 years of experience in the energy industry, including 30 as a senior executive. “At the age of 10, I was a member of Pollution Probe, selling pine trees in shopping malls to raise funds to combat pollution.”

For this very active volunteer who has a multitude of causes, the helping relationship was later transposed to the business world. "I had the chance to work for large companies like Shell, which was committed to supervising its employees and supporting them throughout their careers. After receiving support myself, I climbed the ladder and in turn guided my employees to grow through joint projects."

Mr. Lapensée introduced his children to volunteering at a very young age, notably by taking in two Mira dogs. “When they were 10 or 11 years old, I took them to volunteer with me in CHSLDs,” he adds. “Observing my interactions with the residents, my son told me: Dad, I didn’t know you were like that! It was one of my best decisions as a parent.”





By getting involved with Réseau M and Fondation Montréal Inc., Paul Lapensée confirmed that mentoring has long been in his DNA. “The focus is not on the business, but on the general support of the entrepreneur. This validated that, as a generalist, I naturally did mentoring by supporting teams in various fields. I enjoy meeting these young people who infuse me with a lot of energy.”

“I enjoy mentoring in different areas because there is always something new to learn for me.”


Sylvie Lamarche, developing young talents


Manager, self-employed, entrepreneur, intrapreneur, Sylvie Lamarche has worn many hats. Her interest in business volunteering came after a career change. “I set myself the goal of giving more of my time. Right now, I devote a third of it to my volunteer work. I’m not at the end of my career, but I’m getting there, and over the next five years, I want to gradually turn things around. As long as I’m relevant as a coach or mentor, I’ll keep going.”

Today, as chief of staff to the CEO at Finance Montréal, Sylvie Lamarche is particularly interested in developing the talents of young leaders. “I think that’s what’s most lacking in management schools and in business.”

Having recently completed the Réseau M training, Sylvie Lamarche compares mentoring to a remarkable form of gymnastics that calls on emotional intelligence. “It’s like working different muscles,” she explains. “As a manager, leader or entrepreneur, we have reflexes for taking action and performing. With mentoring, we have to be aware of who we are, how we were trained and our “programming.” Our emotional intelligence has to take over.”

"We have to work with people and listen. We are not the ones who dictate the rules. We have to accept that we don't have all the answers and support entrepreneurs in their thinking."





Three tips from seasoned business volunteers

“Choose an activity that is in line with your values,” recommends Anne-Solène Rioult. “And put in the time! I think you can always have some. It’s important to determine this variable, to find out about the scope of the work and to be honest with the organization. Then, all that’s left to do is to put this commitment on the agenda, like you would a hairdresser’s or doctor’s appointment.”
“To get involved as a volunteer, you have to love people and be drawn to them,” says Paul Lapensée. “You don’t necessarily do it for yourself, but you give a part of yourself. You have to choose projects that interest you, that are in line with your values, and have fun!”
“I suggest taking a first step, regardless of the network. We all know people who know people who can help us determine where we could get involved. Talk to people in your circle, call an organization, write a message on LinkedIn, in short, start the discussion and, one thing leads to another, we meet people and find our way.”

If, like these mentors, you would like to get involved as a volunteer and support entrepreneurs, click here .

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Mélissa Proulx is a journalist, columnist and editor. She has devoted herself with passion and creativity to the development of rich and varied journalistic content since 2002.

With a Bachelor of French Literature from the University of Ottawa and a degree in journalism, Mélissa Proulx was 21 when she was entrusted with the reins of the cultural weekly Voir Gatineau-Ottawa, a regional edition that she directed for eight years. Her path then brought her back to her region where she was head of the Art de vivre section of Voir Montréal and then as assistant editor-in-chief of Enfants Québec magazine.

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